We’re sorry to hear about your dad. We’re not 100 percent sure what type of benefit you’re referring to? It sounds like Medicaid, which is, of course, a needs-based program. However, this is definitely a difficult situation and an appropriate time to seek the counsel of those in the know. To that end, consider contacting a Department of Veterans Affairs Vet Center at 877-927-8387 to see what options might be available given your dad’s service to our country. An attorney that specializes in “elder law” could be helpful with respect to the requirements to qualify for Medicaid. Or, you could use the proceeds from the home sale to finance care for your pop as private care typically beats Medicaid nursing home care. It’s a tough situation, so ensure you’re getting the information you need to make sound decisions.